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menu home blog resources about contact blog home blog dating in church (or outside) - a guide for pastors and singles this is a long read, so make yourself some tea (if you're british) or coffee (if you're not) and take time to read through it. these are my thoughts on singleness and dating in church done well, written some time ago in request of leaders in the field of church and relationships. i hope you enjoy reading it, please leave a response if you do! our society tends to undervalue singleness as well as marriage. singleness, when done well, is honouring to god and can be a very good place to be. and when it’s wholeheartedly chosen, can be fulfilling and happy like paul states in his famous letter to the corinthians. but marriage is equally undervalued. if done well it can be an even happier place to be. research shows happily married people are happier than singles who claim to be happy. the differences aren’t big, but they are there. other research shows happily married people can cope with the stresses of life better and are generally in a better health. our society tells us, especially in big cities, to hover between singleness and marriage. to not commit, but not be alone either. to have ‘the best of both worlds’, only to end up with nothing. because if you’re not committing, a marriage will not be happy. and if you’re not wholeheartedly choosing singleness, singleness will not be happy. the bible challenges us to do both. to value singleness and marriage equally. to see gods love in both ways of doing life. in today’s churches in great britain, 30% of people are single [1] , and this number is growing. of the under 35’s the number is as high as 60% [2] . compared to outside church where of the total population 40% is single this means that there’s probably a percentage of singles leaving church, or that people in church are more committed to marry. or, most likely, a bit of both. but the differences aren’t big. single men are most underrepresented in church, on average there’s about 1 single guy to every 2 single women [3] , and this unbalance is growing. this represents a big problem for single women hoping to marry a christian guy. there’s not nearly enough of them in church. that doesn’t mean you cannot find them outside church, but that’s a lot trickier when you’re in the dating game. because how can you know if you share values and faith when he’s not worshipping in a church? why teach on dating in church? the other day i tweeted on ‘the problems of being single’. immediately i got a response from a woman stating ‘i resent you use the word problems here. there is nothing wrong with being single’. ‘i couldn’t agree with you more’, i replied, ‘there’s nothing wrong with being single at all. it’s just that 98% of singles admits they’d rather be in a relationship’. and there you have the tension. there’s nothing wrong with being single, but what if you want to be in a relationship and don’t know how to get from a (being single) to b (being in a relationship)? and no one in church will tell you? only 1 in 5 respondents of an evangelical alliance survey approved of the use of online dating sites [4] . the only answer most churches seem to have to the issue of dating is to ‘pray and wait’. that’s the also message of the number one bestselling book on dating for years. but if that would be true, then being single wanting a relationship you have a real issue. a problem, if you want to call it that way. there’s lots of myths regarding singleness and dating in church. the ‘pray and wait’-myth not least of all. in a lot of churches the answer you will get as a single person longing for a partner is to ‘just pray and wait’, and, better still, ‘to trust gods timing, because he will provide’. but how can god provide a partner to someone who’s never meeting anyone new? who goes to the same job day in day out, hangs out with the same friends every weekend, sits next to the same few people in church every sunday but never goes on a date? ‘god will let the person i’m supposed to marry ring my doorbell if he needs to’, was my favourite answer to that question for a while. ‘i trust him that much’. it sounded very holy, but was it true? almost every night i blamed him and complained to him for not bringing me the love of my life yet. one of the key problems of singleness is loneliness. 21% of single women and 16% of single men admitted to feeling lonely in a christian connection survey [5] . now this doesn’t mean loneliness is something necessarily connected to singleness. people can feel lonely in all stages of life and it is a more prevalent problem lately than it has been in previous years. we live more isolated lives. but we do know loneliness is a real issue for singles, especially when they live alone. other issues they struggle with are sex, the desire to have children and the social pressure of dating (men mainly report this). 'loneliness is a real issue for singles, especially when they live alone.' now these findings are reported in an online, anonymous survey. but that is another ‘problem’ of singleness. people will not usually share their real feelings regarding missing a partner. they will say things like: ‘there are no good christian men’, or: ‘all the good ones are taken’, or: ‘christian women only want to talk about children on a first date’. but they will not own up to the feelings behind their anger. they will not address their loneliness, the hurt they feel inside, the feeling of being left behind, overlooked or not good enough. and as long as they are not sharing their real feelings married friends will often shrug and say: ‘he/she is just too picky, that’s why they’re single’. in this day and age marriage seems like a risky enterprise. divorce rates are high (though you have to be really careful which sources to trust when it comes to the real figures), and heartbreak is a massive issue most people hope to avoid at all cost. ‘it’s just easier to stay alone’, singles conclude on large scale. except, it’s not. so they find themselves stuck in a ‘dating zone’ for years. as lori gottlieb writes in her book ‘the case for settling for mr. good enough’, some women (hardly ever men) end up in a pattern of dating someone, than breaking up because they feel something is wrong only to end up with a new partner who lacks in another department. the guys all end up married and having children, the women seem to end up childless and desperate. so yes, there is such a thing as being too picky, just as the opposite can be true. the problem however with the statement ‘you’re just too picky’ is that although it may be true, it’s seldom said in love. and truth without love doesn’t change people, it’s only truth spoken in love that has the power to help people change their behaviour. which is one of the pillars of healthy dating, we will get back to that. some (especially evangelical) young couples complain they got married too quickly because they fell in love at 18, 19 or 20 and felt pressured by church or each other to get married in order to avoid ‘burning with passion’ (1cor 7:9). they feel they haven’t had enough opportunity to develop as an individual and haven’t looked enough at their options before settling down. now this may be true, but as we know from research on couples counselling (especially emotionally focussed couples counselling), a lot can be done for people who feel stuck in their marriage, and even after a severe marriage crisis people can fall in love with each other again and end up in a better place together than before the crisis. this points to the importance of another pillar for healthy dating and healthy relationships, establishing good communication patterns from the start. how and what to teach now how can these issues be resolved? teaching about dating is starting with teaching on singleness, validating singleness and considering healthy foundations first. successful dating is connected to living a whole and fulfilling l

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